By ʻO Lizzy Swanberg Hoa Hana | Burlington / Mount Vernon Office
ʻAʻohe makua e manaʻo e ʻeha kā lākou keiki i kahi ulia kaʻa. He ʻike hopohopo nui ia e lawe mai ana i ka makaʻu, ka huikau, a me ka nui o nā nīnau. I nā manawa ma hope o ke kuʻi ʻana, a i nā lā ma hope mai, ʻo ka ʻike pehea e pane aku ai hiki ke hana i kahi ʻokoʻa koʻikoʻi i ka ho'ōla kino ʻana o kāu keiki a me ka wā e hiki mai ana ma ke kālā o kou ʻohana.
ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka mea e hana ai, kou mau pono, a pehea e hana ai ka uku ma nā hihia e pili ana i nā keiki hiki ke kōkua i ka pale ʻana i ka pono o kāu mea aloha a me nā pono lōʻihi.
Nā Hana Koke Ma hope o kahi Kuʻi ʻana me kahi Keiki
Inā aia kāu keiki i loko o kahi kaʻa i kuʻi ʻia, inā he mea holo kaʻa a he mea hele wāwae paha, ʻo kāu mea nui mua ka mālama olakino. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻohe ʻeha i ʻike ʻia, hiki i nā keiki ke ʻeha i ka ʻeha kūloko a i ʻole nā hōʻailona lohi. E kāhea aku i kāu pediatrician i loko o 24 mau hola.
Nā hana ʻē aʻe e hana ai:
- Kāhea i ka 911 a hōʻike i ke kuʻi ʻana.
- E hoʻopaʻa i ke kahua, me ka pōʻino o ke kaʻa, ke kūlana o ke alanui, a me ka ʻike pili no nā mea hōʻike.
- Mai ʻae i ka hewa a mai kuhi hewa paha i ka mea i hana ʻia.
- E mālama i nā palapala hoʻokipa a pau e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana, me nā lako i kūʻai ʻia ma ke kūʻai aku a i ʻole nā hoʻonohonoho hoʻomākaukau.
Nā ʻeha maʻamau i loaʻa i nā keiki i nā ulia kaʻa
Ke ulu mau nei ke kino o nā keiki. ʻO ke ʻano kēia, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o lākou i kekahi mau ʻeha. ʻO kekahi o nā mea maʻamau:
- Nā haʻalulu a i ʻole nā ʻeha o ka lolo traumatic (TBI)
- Nā haʻihaʻi a me nā iwi haʻihaʻi
- Nā ʻeha o ke kaula kuamoʻo a i ʻole ka ʻāʻī
- ʻO ka trauma noʻonoʻo e like me ka hopohopo a i ʻole PTSD
- Nā ʻeha kūloko i ʻike koke ʻole ʻia
ʻOiai inā ʻike ʻia ke keiki ua maikaʻi ma ia wahi, hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā hōʻailona e like me ke poʻo mau, nā pilikia hiamoe, a i ʻole nā loli ʻana o ke ʻano i nā lā aʻe. Hiki i ka mālama ʻana i kahi moʻolelo kikoʻī o nā hōʻailona ke kōkua i nā kauka a me nā loio ma hope.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka uku no nā ʻeha o ke keiki?
I ka pōkole, ʻae. Ma lalo o ke kānāwai hōʻeha pilikino, loaʻa i nā keiki ke kuleana like i ka uku e like me nā pākeke. Hiki ke komo pū ka uku:
- Nā lilo lapaʻau, me nā pono lapaʻau e hiki mai ana
- ʻEha a me ke kaumaha (kino a me ka naʻau)
- Nalo o ka lealea o ke ola
- Ua nalowale ka uku o nā mākua mai ka hoʻomaha ʻana i ka hana
- Ka hoʻonaʻauao kūikawā a i ʻole ke kākoʻo olakino noʻonoʻo, inā pono
No ka mea, ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki ʻuʻuku ke waiho i nā hoʻopiʻi ma o lākou iho, waiho pinepine kahi makua a kahu paha i kahi koi ma ko lākou inoa. Ma ka hapa nui o nā mokuʻāina, ua hoʻomaha ʻia ke kānāwai o nā palena a hiki i ka piha ʻana o ke keiki i 18 makahiki akā hiki i ka hana mua ʻana ke hoʻoikaika i ka hihia.
He aha inā ʻaʻole i ʻike koke ʻia ka ʻeha?
ʻO kekahi mau ʻeha, ʻoiai nā ʻeha kūloko a i ʻole ka ʻeha naʻau ma hope o kahi ulia kaʻa, ʻaʻole paha e ʻike ʻia a hiki i nā lā a i ʻole nā pule ma hope. ʻAʻole ia manaʻo ua nalowale kou manawa kūpono e hana i nā hana kānāwai. ʻO ka mea nui, ua ʻimi ʻoe i ka mālama lapaʻau i ka manawa kūpono a hiki ke hōʻike i ka pili ʻana o ka ʻeha o kāu keiki i ka ulia kaʻa.
Inā kū mai nā hōʻailona hou, e like me ka pilikia hiamoe, nā ʻeha poʻo, nā loli o ke ʻano, a i ʻole nā hakakā hoʻonaʻauao, e mālama i kahi moʻolelo i kākau ʻia a kāhea aku i ke kauka o kāu keiki. Hiki i kahi loio hōʻeha keiki akamai ke kōkua i ka hoʻopili ʻana i nā kiko ma waena o ke kuʻi ʻana a me nā hopena i lohi, e hoʻoikaika ana i kāu koi hōʻeha ulia kaʻa.
E kamaʻilio me kahi loio nāna e lawelawe i nā hihia hōʻeha e pili ana i nā keiki
Pono nā hihia e pili ana i nā keiki i ʻeha i kahi ala noʻonoʻo a lokomaikaʻi hoʻi a me kahi hoʻolālā maopopo e loaʻa ai ke kākoʻo no ke alanui e hiki mai ana. Inā ua ʻeha kāu keiki i kahi ulia kaʻa ma ke ʻano he mea holo kaʻa, he mea hele wāwae, a he mea holo paikikala paha, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka uku no nā lilo lapaʻau, ka hōʻeha naʻau, a me nā pono mālama i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO Lizzy Swanberg, he hoa hana ma GLP Attorneys, lawe mai i ka ʻike kānāwai a me ke aloha i nā ʻohana e hoʻokele ana ma hope o nā ulia koʻikoʻi. Hana pū ʻo ia me nā mea kūʻai aku e hoʻopaʻa i nā mea hoʻokele hoʻohemahema a e kōkua i ka hōʻoia ʻana e loaʻa i nā keiki i ʻeha ka mālama a me ka uku i kūpono iā lākou.
E hoʻonohonoho i kahi kūkākūkā kūloko, kāhea 800.273.5005. Nā Loio GLP eia nō e kōkua i kou ʻohana e neʻe palekana i mua me ke kākoʻo.
