By uPhil Ayers | Umhlobo | Seattle iofisi
Ukulunywa yinja kunokuba buhlungu kwaye kube buhlungu, kwaye kwenzeka rhoqo kunokuba abantu abaninzi becinga. Uninzi lwabanini bezinja abazi ukuba ukuba inja yabo iluma umntu, basenokuba nezizathu ezimbalwa zomthetho zokuzikhusela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ngokuzenzekelayo baxhomekeke ekwenzenikala okubangelwe yinja yabo, nokuba ngabanini bezinja abazikhathaleleyo okanye akunjalo.
Uxanduva Lomnini Wenja
Phantsi komthetho wezohlwayo, umnini wenja unokujongana "noxanduva oluqatha" ngayo nayiphi na ingozi ebangelwe yinja yakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba umniniyo unokubekwa ityala nokuba ebengenankathalo okanye ebengazi ukuba inja ithanda ukuluma.
Ngokutsho kwe-Inshorensi Information Institute, Amazwe angama-29 abeka abanini bezinja uxanduva ngokwenzakala okunxulumene nenja, ngaphandle kweminye imiqathango embalwa (njengokuba inja ivuselelwe okanye umntu olunywe ngumntu ongene ngaphandle kwemvume). Ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni inja ilunywe phi, uxanduva lunokungena phantsi kwesinye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi zikhokelo zomthetho zilandelayo:
1. Imithetho yoButyala obuNgqongileyo
Kwimimandla emininzi, imithetho yokuluma inja yenza umnini wenja abe noxanduva ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba inja yakhe iluma okanye yenzakalisa umntu. Akunamsebenzi nokuba inja ayizange ilume mntu ngaphambili, ayizange ibonakalise naziphi na iimpawu zobundlobongela, okanye ukuba umniniyo uthathe amanyathelo okhuseleko—ukuba kukho ukwenzakala, umniniyo usengozini.
2. Umthetho "wokulunywa okukhululekileyo"
Amanye amazwe asalandela umthetho wembali othi “ukuluma simahla kube kanye.” Oku kuthetha ukuba umnini angakuphepha uxanduva lokuba inja yakhe yenzakalise umntu ukuba akanasizathu sokwazi ukuba inja yakhe iyingozi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umnini unesizathu sokwazi ukuba isilwanyana sakhe sinokuba yingozi, umnini unoxanduva olusemthethweni lokuthintela ingozi yexesha elizayo yolo hlobo kwaye uya kuba noxanduva lomonakalo inja yakhe ewenza kwenye.
3. Ukungakhathali
Kwezi meko, umnini angathwaliswa uxanduva ukuba umntu wenzakele ngenxa yokusilela komnini ukwenza izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo, njengokungayibophi inja yakhe esidlangalaleni okanye ukuyivumela ukuba ihambe ngokukhululekileyo. Ukuba ukungakhathali komnini kubangela ukwenzakala, unothwaliswa uxanduva.
Ngaba Zikhona Naziphi Na Izinto Ezikhethekileyo?
Uninzi lwamazwe alubabeki abanini bezinja uxanduva ukuba umntu ongene ngenkani kwipropati yakhe unzakele. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba inja ihlasela umntu okwipropati ngokusemthethweni, njengomntu ohambisa impahla, ummelwane, okanye umntu odlulayo, umniniyo unokufuneka ahlawulele umntu owenzakeleyo ngezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Iindleko zonyango
- Umvuzo olahlekileyo
- Intlungu kunye nokubandezeleka
- Uxinzelelo ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukonakala kwepropati
Thetha neGqwetha elinamava ngeNzakala zoMntu namhlanje
Ukulunywa yinja kunokuba yingozi kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo kwesi siganeko. Ukuba ulunywe okanye inja yakho yenzakalise umntu, kubalulekile ukunxibelelana negqwetha elinamava okwenzakala komntu ngokukhawuleza. Amagqwetha e-GLP axhase abathengi ngetyala labo lokwenzakala komntu kangangeminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amathathu. Amagqwetha e-GLP anamava okufezekisa ubulungisa kubathengi abenzakele zizilwanyana, iimveliso, kwi imoto iingozi, kunye nokuninzi.
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