Umama ongatshatanga onezingane ezine uJane Doe wayengalindelanga ukuba ingozi yangasemva ingatshintsha ubomi bakhe ngoko nangoko. Ngequbuliso wazifumana ejongene nentlungu eqatha yentamo nomqolo eyabangela ukuba imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ibe nzima kwaye yamshiya esokola ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zokuba ngumama.

Kule vidiyo, uMnini-zabelo UJonathan Yousling Ukwabelana ngebali likaJane kunye nemingeni awajongana nayo emva kokungqubana ngasemva okwamshiya eneengozi ezinkulu. Ngelixa uJane wayegxile ekuchacheni kwakhe nasekunyamekeleni usapho lwakhe, iqela leGLP Attorneys lasebenza nzima ukummela nokulandela ubulungisa obumfaneleyo.

Ngubani umthengi wakho, Jane?

UJane ngumfazi onobuntu kakhulu ongumama okhutheleyo nozinikeleyo wabantwana abane. Ubathanda kakhulu kwaye uyabakhathalela bonke imihla ngemihla njengoko ebafundisa ekhaya kwaye elawula ikhaya labo. Usapho luyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kwaye ludla ngokuhamba ngekhephu, ukukhwela i-wakeboard, kunye nokuhambisa iityhubhu nosapho lwabo olongezelelweyo. Kubalulekile kuye ukwakha iinkumbulo ezihlala ixesha elide kubantwana bakhe nokubanika amava axabisekileyo navuzayo njengomama ongatshatanga kubantwana bakhe.

Umthengi wayejonga indlela yokukhulisa abantwana, amadinga ogqirha, ukufundisa ekhaya, nokuqinisekisa ukuba kukho ukutya etafileni kunye nophahla phezu kweentloko zabo. Ubunzima beemvakalelo nobomzimba bengozi buchaphazele kakhulu impilo-ntle yakhe neyabantwana bakhe.

Kwenzeka ntoni kuJane?

UJane wayeqhuba imoto yakhe esiya eRedmond. Wamiswa kwisibane esibomvu xa ngequbuliso waphela ngasemva. Xa uJane ebuya ekhaya ngaloo ngokuhlwa, wayesele eqalile ukuva iintlungu emqolo wakhe ongasentla nasemagxeni akhe. Ngosuku olulandelayo, wayebuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye ukwenzakala kwakhe kwamenza kwaba nzima kuye ukunyamekela abantwana bakhe nokugqiba usuku lwakhe lomsebenzi.

Ukulimala kukaJane kwakukubi kangakanani?

Ukulimala kwakhe kwakukubi ngendlela ekhohlisayo, kwaye oko ndikutshoyo kukuba wawungenakumbona eqhwalela. Wawungenakukubona intlungu yakhe entanyeni yakhe, kodwa emgogodleni wakhe wesibeleko, wayenengxaki yokungazinzi okwakubangela ukuba imithambo-luvo yakhe ithumele imiqondiso yentlungu emzimbeni wakhe wonke, kwaye yayimtyhafisa. UJane uyaqhubeka eva iintlungu ezibuhlungu entanyeni nasemqolo, nto leyo ethintela amandla akhe okusebenza nokwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ngenxa yengozi.

Yayiyintoni ingxoxo yelinye icala? Zeziphi iingxaki ojongene nazo?

Ukususela ekuqaleni kwetyala lakhe, iinkampani zeinshurensi wayengathandabuzi ukuba wayenokwenzakala konke konke. Ngokuqinisekileyo yayingengabo abo babehlala ixesha elide, kwaye isiseko okanye isiseko senkolelo yabo yayiyifoto yemoto yakhe, eyayingabonakalisi monakalo kuyo konke konke. Ngoko ke iinkampani zeinshorensi zathatha isigqibo sokuba angenzakala njani? Umele ukuba uyaxoka. Umele ukuba uyagqithisa. Umele ukuba ngumntu ongeyonyani. 

Kwaye yiloo nto siyixakekisileyo xa sasikwityala. Indlela esiyoyisile ngayo loo mathandabuzo yimbali yetyala. Enyanisweni, into yokuqala esayenzayo phambi kwejaji yayikukubaxelela ukuba ubomi bukaJane abuzange buchazwe kumfanekiso wemoto ka-2003 iHonda Civic. Yayingaphezulu koko, ingaphezulu koko.

Sibonise ukuba wayezimisele kunyango kwasekuqaleni, ukuba wayengenazo izinto awayezicinga ngaphambili, ukuba wayejongene nomngeni onzima kakhulu, kungekuphela nje ngenxa yengozi, kodwa nobomi bakhe. Ngexesha lengozi, umyeni wakhe wayejongene notywala kangangokuba bahlukana ngelixa yena wayezama ukuphola kule ngozi.

Kwaye iinkampani zeinshorensi zifumanise ngale nto, zazama ukusebenzisa oku njengesizathu sengqondo sokuba afumane iintlungu ezigqithisileyo. Kodwa sikwazile ukufumana abantu ababemazi kakuhle, umboneleli wakhe oyintloko, oogqirha bakhe ukuba baqhube kwaye banikele ubungqina phambi kwejaji kwiikhilomitha ezininzi ukusuka ekhayeni labo, kwaye bame naye baze babaxelele ukuba wayengengomntu ongeyonyani. Wayengengomntu oxokayo. Wayengumntu ofanelwe kukubaluleka.

Luhlobo luni lokuchacha owakwaziyo ukulifumana kuJane?

Sakwazi ukufumana isigwebo esiphantse safikelela kwisigqibo $ 1.9 yezigidi kuJane.

Isigqibo kunye nokubuyiselwa kwemali kuye kwathetha ukuthini?

Le yimali etshintsha ubomi bakhe kunye nosapho lwakhe. Phakathi kweengxaki zempilo awazifumanayo emva kwengozi, wayejongene nokugcina abantwana bakhe bekhuselekile kulwalamano oluqhubekayo lokuxhatshazwa nomyeni wakhe. Umyeni wakhe wasweleka ngexesha letyala, nto leyo eyazisa imingeni emitsha ekufuneka ayihambe kwaye ayoyise. Isigwebo samvumela ukuba agcine ishishini lakhe elincinci kwaye aqhubeke enika abantwana bakhe ubomi obuhle kakhulu anokubanika bona, ngelixa egcina impilo yakhe iphambili.

Kwakuthetha ukuthini ukuba uJane aviwe, aze akholwe?

Ukuqinisekiswa kubonakala ngathi ligama elihle, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuvakala ngathi yinto yezonyango. Kodwa kule meko ithile, ukuqinisekiswa kwakuphilisa ngandlela thile.

Njengoko ndandisenza ingxoxo yokugqibela, kwakukho ixesha apho ndandinokujonga uJane emva kwaye ndambona elila. Xa ndambona elila, kwandenza ndazingca ngokuba ligqwetha letyala, kuba ndandisazi ukuba ndenze umsebenzi wam, owawukukumxelela ibali lakhe.

Hayi ngenxa yejaji, hayi ngenxa yejaji, kodwa ngenxa yakhe, ukuze ayive aze akholelwe. Kwaye wayenjalo. Ngoku angaqhubeka nemingeni yokwenyani awayenayo ngempilo yakhe kule ngozi aze abe nekamva labantwana bakhe abane elikhuselekileyo kunokuba lalinjalo. Yiloo nto yayithetha kuye.

Ithini le miphumo malunga namaGqwetha e-GLP njengenkampani?

Kwi-GLP Attorneys, asizinzi nje kuphela, silwela oko kufanelekileyo. Yiloo nto kanye esayenzayo kulo mthengi. Ukususela ngomhla wokuqala, iqela lethu lezomthetho laphulaphula ngenyameko, lakha ityala eliqinileyo elisekelwe kwiinyani novelwano, laza lalungiselela ngokungakhathali ukuya enkundleni. Ngelixa iinkampani ezininzi zifuna izisombululo ezikhawulezileyo, asisokuze siphephe ityala xa ubulungisa bufuna oko. Esi sigwebo asibonisi nje kuphela ubukhali bokwenzakala kwabathengi bethu, kodwa sikwabonisa namandla okulwela ngokungapheliyo. Umahluko kwi-GLP Attorneys™ umalunga nokuba khona, ukulungiselela nokuzinikela kubathengi bethu, kuluntu lwethu nakwiziphumo abafaneleyo.

Amagqwetha e-GLP asebenza nzima ukubonelela abathengi abanjengoJane iziphumo ezingcono kakhulu ngenxa yamatyala abo okwenzakala.

Ukuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo uye wenzakala kwingozi, nceda utsalele umnxeba 800-273-5005, okanye uthumele i-imeyile kumagqwetha ethu ku ukwenzela ukubonisana simahla.