By ULizzy Swanberg | Umsizi | IBurlington / iNtaba iVernon Office
Akekho umzali oke alindele ukuthi ingane yakhe ilimale engozini yemoto. Kuyinto ephazamisayo kakhulu eletha ukwesaba, ukudideka, kanye nemibuzo eminingi. Emizuzwini embalwa ngemva kwengozi, kanye nasezinsukwini ezilandelayo, Ukwazi ukuthi ungaphendula kanjani kungenza umehluko obalulekile ekusimeni kwengane yakho ngokomzimba kanye nekusasa lezezimali lomndeni wakho.
Ukuqonda ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze, amalungelo akho ayini, nokuthi isinxephezelo sisebenza kanjani emacaleni ahilela izingane kungasiza ekuvikeleni inhlalakahle yomuntu omthandayo kanye nezidingo zakhe zesikhathi eside.
Izinyathelo Ezisheshayo Ngemva Kokushayisana Okuhilela Ingane
Uma ingane yakho ibisemotweni eshayisiwe, kungaba njengomgibeli noma ohamba ngezinyawo, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze kube ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha. Ngisho noma kungekho ukulimala okubonakalayo, izingane zingaba nokulimala kwangaphakathi noma izimpawu ezibambezelekile. Xhumana nodokotela wezingane zingakapheli amahora angama-24.
Ezinye izinyathelo okufanele uzithathe:
- Shayela ku-911 bese ubika ingozi.
- Bhala phansi indawo yesigameko, okuhlanganisa umonakalo wemoto, izimo zomgwaqo, kanye nolwazi lokuxhumana lofakazi.
- Ungavumi iphutha noma uqagele ngokwenzekile.
- Londoloza wonke amarisidi ahlobene nokunakekelwa, okuhlanganisa izinto ezitholakala ngaphandle kwekhawuntara noma ama-aphoyintimenti okulandelela.
Ukulimala Okuvamile Izingane Ezibhekana Nakho Ezingozini Zezimoto
Imizimba yezingane isakhula. Lokhu kusho ukuthi zingase zibe sengozini enkulu yokulimala okuthile. Ezinye zezinto ezivame kakhulu zihlanganisa:
- Ukulimala kobuchopho okubuhlungu noma ukulimala kobuchopho okubuhlungu (TBI)
- Ukuphuka namathambo aphukile
- Ukulimala komgogodla noma kwentamo
- Ukulimala kwengqondo njengokukhathazeka noma i-PTSD
- Ukulimala kwangaphakathi okungenzeka kungabonakali ngokushesha
Ngisho noma ingane ibonakala iphilile endaweni yesehlakalo, izimpawu ezifana nekhanda elibuhlungu elingapheli, izinkinga zokulala, noma izinguquko zokuziphatha zingase zivele ezinsukwini ezilandelayo. Ukugcina uhlu oluningiliziwe lwezimpawu kungaba usizo kokubili kodokotela kanye nabameli kamuva.
Ungayithola Yini Isinxephezelo Ngokulimala Kwengane?
Ngamafuphi, yebo. Ngaphansi komthetho wokulimala komuntu siqu, izingane zinelungelo elifanayo lokuthola isinxephezelo njengabantu abadala. Isinxephezelo singafaka:
- Izindleko zezokwelapha, okuhlanganisa nezidingo zokwelapha zesikhathi esizayo
- Ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka (ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo)
- Ukulahlekelwa injabulo yokuphila
- Ukulahlekelwa yimali yabazali ngenxa yokuthatha isikhathi sokuphumula emsebenzini
- Imfundo ekhethekile noma ukwesekwa kwezempilo yengqondo, uma kudingeka
Ngenxa yokuthi izingane ezincane azikwazi ukufaka amacala zodwa, umzali noma umnakekeli osemthethweni uvame ukufaka isimangalo egameni labo. Ezifundeni eziningi, umthetho wemikhawulo uyamiswa kuze kube yilapho ingane ifinyelela eminyakeni engu-18 kodwa ukwenza isinyathelo kusenesikhathi kungenza icala libe namandla.
Kuthiwani Uma Ukulimala Kungabonakali Ngokushesha?
Ezinye izingozi, ikakhulukazi ukulimala kwangaphakathi noma ukulimala ngokomzwelo ngemva kwengozi yemoto, zingase zingaveli kuze kube yizinsuku noma ngisho namasonto kamuva. Lokho akusho ukuthi ulahlekelwe yithuba lakho lokuthatha isinyathelo somthetho. Okubalulekile ukuthi ufune ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha ngesikhathi esifanele futhi ungabonisa ukuthi ukulimala kwengane yakho kuhlobene nengozi yemoto.
Uma kuvela izimpawu ezintsha, njengobunzima bokulala, ikhanda elibuhlungu, ukushintsha kwemizwelo, noma izinkinga zemfundo, gcina irekhodi elibhaliwe bese uxhumana nodokotela wengane yakho. Ummeli onolwazi ngokulimala kwengane angasiza ekuhlanganiseni amachashazi phakathi kokushayisana kanye imiphumela ebambezelekile, okuqinisa isimangalo sakho sokulimala kwengozi yemoto.
Khuluma Nommeli Ophatha Amacala Okulimala Ahilela Izingane
Amacala ahilela izingane ezilimele adinga indlela ecatshangelwe kahle, enozwela kanye nesu elicacile lokuthola ukwesekwa kwendlela ezayo. Uma ingane yakho ilimele engozini yemoto njengomgibeli, ohamba ngezinyawo, noma ogibela ibhayisikili, ungase ube nelungelo lokuthola isinxephezelo sezindleko zezokwelapha, ukulimala ngokomzwelo, kanye nezidingo zokunakekelwa kwesikhathi esizayo. ULizzy SwanbergU-Associate, osebenza e-GLP Attorneys, uletha kokubili ukuqonda kwezomthetho kanye nozwela emindenini ebhekana nemiphumela yezingozi ezinkulu. Usebenzisana eduze namakhasimende ukuze abophe abashayeli abanganaki futhi asize ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi izingane ezilimele zithola ukunakekelwa kanye nesinxephezelo ezisifanele.
Ukuhlela i- ukubonisana kwamahhala, ucingo 800.273.5005. Abameli be-GLP ilapha ukusiza umndeni wakho ukuthi uqhubekele phambili ngokuphepha ngokusekelwa.
